The Elite College Playbook

I wasn’t #1 in my class.
I wasn’t in the top 10%.
I had a 1440 on the SAT.
Brown was the only school I applied to. No backups.

And I got in. For $0 out of pocket.

If you’re a parent, you might be wondering:

Okay, Tomi. How?

I’m going to show you.

But I’m not going to hand you my application and say, “Copy this.”

Because along the way, I learned something. And it changed how I did the whole thing.

I wasn’t perfect. But I had a plan.

And I don’t think your child needs more advice. I think they need a plan too.

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You’ve already done so much.

You signed them up for the hard classes.
You found the SAT prep book.
You pushed them to join the clubs.
You made time for them to volunteer.
You reminded them about every deadline. More than once.
You read the articles.
You watched the videos.
You asked the counselor.
You asked other parents.

You have enough college advice to fill a binder.

And applying to college is nothing like it was when you did it. If you did it at all.

Grades matter? You know.
Test scores matter? You know.
Activities matter? You know.

If it all feels confusing, that’s because it is.

The problem was never that you didn’t care. Or that you didn’t try.

It’s that nobody will tell you straight what really matters.

People say your child should be doing a hundred things. And you can’t tell which ones really help.

So you’re still not sure if what they’re doing is enough.

Now here’s what I didn’t have.

You might picture the student who gets into Brown.

A 1500+ SAT
#1 in their class
Every AP class
Private schools
Expensive tutors
Parents who went to top colleges

Perfect everything.

That was not my story.

What I didn’t have

I didn’t have a private college counselor.
I didn’t have parents who knew how it all worked. My dad was a single immigrant, and I had to navigate this process on my own.
I couldn’t afford expensive summer programs.
I didn’t have connections.
I didn’t have a 1500+ SAT.
I wasn’t #1 in my class.

I also skipped some of the “typical” things. On purpose.

I didn’t join National Honor Society (or any other generic club). I didn’t feel like I had to do what was “typical” or “expected” to get into the school I wanted.
I didn’t take every AP class my school offered. I didn’t want to. And I knew more AP classes wouldn’t make me stand out from my classmates.
I didn’t apply to 20 schools and hope one said yes. I applied to one.

And I got into Brown anyway. For $0 out of pocket.

So if it wasn’t a perfect score, a private counselor or the right connections...

What was it?

I didn’t try to check every box. I picked every piece of my application on purpose.

Most applications

Most applications are random pieces that don’t connect. Another AP. Another club. Another activity because it “looks good.”

Mine

Mine told one clear story. My classes, my activities, my essays and even my teachers’ letters all pointed the same way.

That’s what made it memorable.

And it’s exactly what The Elite College Playbook shows your child how to do.

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Of course you want the best for your child.

You want them to get a great education.
You want them to have choices.
You want them to be happy, wherever they end up.

And all of that is true.

But maybe there’s more you don’t say out loud.

Maybe you want them to walk through doors you never got the chance to.
Maybe you want them to have the edge that comes with a top college.
Maybe you want to stop lying awake worrying about the cost.
Maybe you want to hear the name of the school they got into and feel your whole chest swell with pride.
Maybe you want decision day to end in a scream of joy, not a quiet “it’s okay.”
Maybe you want to stop wondering if another family’s $7,000 counselor is why their kid gets in and yours doesn’t.
Maybe you want to make sure your bright, quiet kid doesn’t fall through the cracks.
Maybe you just want to know you did everything you could. No “what ifs.”

You can know a school name isn’t everything, and still want them to get in.

You can tell them “wherever you go, you’ll be fine,” and still want them to have the choice.

You can love exactly who they are right now, and still want them to have more.

Both can be true.

That’s why you push them. Even when they don’t get it yet.

Because you can see what’s possible for them.

But if more advice were the answer... wouldn’t every hardworking student be getting in?

Here’s what I learned.

Being qualified and being memorable are two different things.

Every year, thousands of students apply to top colleges. Great grades. Great scores. A long list of activities.

And most of them don’t get in.

Not because they weren’t qualified.

Because they looked like everyone else.

Most students start by asking

“What will look good to colleges?”

The Playbook flips the question

“What do I really care about?”

That one switch changes everything.

The classes they take.
The few things they go deep on.
The programs they go after.
The essays they write.
Even which teachers write their letters.

Every piece starts doing a job. And the application starts sounding like your child.

This isn’t another college advice book.

Your child is going to do the work.

Bring their grades.
Bring their activity list.
Bring the essay idea they keep coming back to.
Bring the thing they’d do for hours even if it never went on an application.

Inside The Elite College Playbook: the Academic Pyramid page on a tablet, the cover on a laptop and Part One on a phone

Inside the Playbook, your child will:

Look at their grades the way a college admissions officer does

See what colleges really check, like whether they took the hard classes their school offers.
Check their activity list

Find what’s only there to look good. And what should get more of their time.
Find their spike

The one thing they can go deep on and be known for.
Make a list of programs for their grade

Find programs, contests and scholarships most families never hear about.
Find the essay only they could write

Turn real moments into essays that sound like them. Parts of my own essays show how.
Pick Early or Regular Decision

How each one works. When applying early helps. And why I chose it for Brown.

Not some made-up student with a 1600 and 14 clubs.

Your child. Their school. Their interests. Their real schedule.

The Playbook teaches every step. The five tools in the bundle help your child do them faster.

The best application isn’t the most impressive one. It’s the one only your child could have written.

I pushed myself in school.

I went deep on what I really cared about.

I built my application around who I really was. Not around what I thought colleges wanted.

There is no perfect student.

You don’t become memorable by doing more. You become memorable by doing things on purpose.

And your child’s background is their starting point.

It is not their ceiling.

Choose your Playbook

Both come with the full Elite College Playbook.

The difference is how much of the work is already done for you.

Recommended

The Elite College Playbook with its five tools: The Hidden Opportunity Directory, The Grade-by-Grade Roadmap, The Spike Discovery Workbook, The College Essay Brainstorming Workbook and The Financial Aid Advantage

The Playbook + 5 Tools

$97

Don’t just read the plan. Put it to work this week.

Everything in the Playbook, plus five tools. Each one does a job families often pay a counselor for.

The full Elite College Playbook
The Hidden Opportunity Directory: 175 programs, competitions and scholarships for middle and high school students. Most families never hear about them. Now your child can find the ones that fit, without hours of searching.
The Spike Discovery Workbook: a step-by-step guide to finding the one thing your child could be known for. That’s where standing out starts.
The College Essay Brainstorming Workbook: 13 exercises that help your child find real stories to write about. No more staring at a blank page.
The Financial Aid Advantage: see what college will really cost before your child applies. It explains the money words. It lists schools that cover a family’s full need. And it shows you how to ask for more aid.
The Grade-by-Grade Roadmap: a checklist for each year, 9th to 12th grade. You’ll always know what your child should do now. So nothing sneaks up on you.
Instant access, yours to keep

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The Elite College Playbook on a desktop screen, laptop, tablet and phone, with printed pages

The Playbook

$47

For the parent who wants the full plan, start to finish.

The full Elite College Playbook
Parts of my real essays, as examples
Instant access, yours to keep

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Most families who hire a private college counselor spend about $6,500 on a full package. One parent who paid $7,000 said:

I sure would love that 7k back.

I kept these prices low on purpose. This shouldn’t be out of reach for the families who need it most. I’m giving the information people pay thousands for less than $100.

The ECP Money Back Promise

Give the Elite College Playbook 7 days. Go through the strategies, explore the resources, and see if it gives your family the clarity and direction you’re looking for. If you decide it’s not right for your family, simply email me within 7 days of your purchase for a full refund. No hard feelings!

Playbook or Playbook + tools?

If you’re thinking:

“Is the Playbook alone enough?”

Yes.

It’s the full plan. Every part. Every step.

Your child can follow it on their own.

The difference is simple:

The Playbook shows your child what to do.

The tools help them do it.

And sometimes the hard part isn’t knowing what to do. It’s finding the right programs. Spotting their spike. Getting the first essay idea on paper. Making sense of the money. And staying on track, year after year.

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Frequently asked questions

“But Tomi... my child doesn’t have perfect grades.”

Good. That’s exactly who I wrote this for.

The Playbook isn’t about perfect grades, perfect scores or a long list of activities. It’s about your child’s real strengths and interests.

Even one bad semester isn’t the end of the story. Colleges look at the whole application. The Playbook helps your child make the rest of it count.

“My child is quiet. They’re not president of five clubs.”

They don’t need to be. Going deep on one thing matters more than a long list.

Activities don’t have to be clubs. A job, a hobby they’ve stuck with or a project of their own can count too.

The Playbook helps your child find the one thing they can go deep on.

“Isn’t this just advice I can find online for free?”

Some of it. But the hard part isn’t finding advice. It’s knowing which advice is worth listening to.

The Playbook puts the pieces in order. Your child will know what matters, what to do first and what to skip.

“Is this for me or for my child?”

Both. It’s written to your child, so they can follow it on their own. You’ll read it too. And you’ll know just what to look for.

And if your child doesn’t always listen to you, that’s normal. This way, the advice isn’t coming from you. It’s coming from someone who was in their shoes not long ago.

“What if my child doesn’t know what to write about?”

They don’t need a big, dramatic story. A great essay can start with something small. A meal. A bus ride. A strange habit.

The essay chapter shows your child how to find the story only they could tell. The College Essay Brainstorming Workbook in the bundle gives them 13 exercises to get there.

“What grade should my child be in?”

9th to 12th. The earlier the better. More programs are still open to them.

Plenty of parents only figure this out by their second kid. Starting early is how you figure it out with your first.

The Grade-by-Grade Roadmap in the bundle shows you what to do each year.

Is your child a senior? Start with the back half of the book: essays, Early or Regular Decision, and teacher letters.

“We’re worried about paying for college. Does this help?”

Yes. The price on a college’s website isn’t always what you pay. Brown cost over $70,000 a year when I applied. I went for $0.

That wasn’t luck. Brown promises to meet 100% of a family’s need. I picked it knowing that if I got in, my costs would be covered.

The Financial Aid Advantage in the bundle shows you which schools do the same. It also shows you how to find your real price, and how to ask for more aid.

“Will this guarantee my child gets in?”

No. Nobody can promise that. And some of it isn’t fair. Kids whose parents went there. Big donations. Zip codes.

You can’t control any of that. You can control how your child gets ready.

What I can give you is the plan and the tools to do that, with a lot less guessing.

“What if it’s not right for us?”

Give it 7 days. If it’s not right for your family, email me within 7 days. I’ll give you all your money back. No hard feelings.

“How do I get it?”

Right away. You’ll get an email with your download links as soon as you buy.

Tomi today, smiling in glasses and a cream cardigan

Tomi in her Brown cap and gown at graduation

One last thing.

I know what it’s like to figure this out when nobody in your house has done it before.

To watch other students have things you don’t.

Private college counselors.
Parents who know how it all works.
Expensive summer programs.
Connections.

I had none of that. So I went looking.

And I found programs that could close some of the gap.

I also know what it’s like to be on the other side.

Brown. One application. $0 out of pocket.

The difference between students isn’t always talent. Sometimes it’s just knowing where to look.

This Playbook is here to close that gap.

So if you’ve been wondering how a student with a 1440 and one application got into Brown...

If you’re tired of advice that doesn’t tell you what really matters...

If your child has done everything right and you still don’t know if it’s enough...

If you’re ready to stop guessing and give them a real plan...

Start tonight.

Maybe your child doesn’t need to do more.

Maybe they need to find out what makes them memorable.

The Elite College Playbook

1440SAT
OneApplication
BrownAdmitted
$0Out of pocket

Now let’s build your child’s plan.

Many programs in the directory are only open to certain grades. A 9th grader can apply to things a 12th grader can’t. The sooner your child knows where to look, the more doors are still open.